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Tea or Coffee?

Dad would answer, “Yes, please” to that question.  What would you answer?  My friend, known as Peady online, posed that question the other day on Facebook and it got me thinking.  I think it’s pretty clear if you know me, that I do love coffee.  But, I do love a good cup of tea, too.

So, let’s start with coffee.  I never drank coffee until I was well into my twenties and it started off as a Sunday afternoon thing after a yummy meal with the Munroe’s and whatever crowd they had over after church.   I’d have a cup, sweeten to the hilt with brown sugar and laden with milk or cream.  Hardly even tasted like coffee, more like a milky, sweet hot beverage!  Then I started hanging out with Janice and her and Trevor would make the most delicious flavoured coffee, again with lots of sugar and cream.  How was one to refuse such a treat??

 

I think it was when I was home with baby Lena that the coffee drinking started in earnest.  I know had a coffee maker before that, but it barely ever got used….until then! Coffee with Catherine became a regular occurrence and thus my addiction was truly born.

Now, my day always starts with a pot of coffee, which for my coffee maker equals two mugs.  I like it hot, black and with some honey or brown sugar.  If I have to leave before the second cup gets consumed, I throw it in a travel mug and lug it along with me.  I’ll drink it on the drive or when I get to work.  A good travel mug is key.  Forget the pretty ones with silicone lids, give me a Contigo travel mug that I can throw in my bag on my way out the door with worrying about it spilling everywhere.

Tea or Coffee?

I mentioned I like brown sugar in my coffee.  Have you tried it?  I’m amazed by how few people know about this wonderfulness!  It’s just prefect!  I’ll settle for white sugar but brown sugar is by far my top pick!

Now, tea, well, the best tea is at Mom and Dad’s, hands down, not doubt about it.  I’m not sure, but I’m guessing the difference is the water.  Plus, that’s the tea I grew up on and continue to share with Mom and Dad, pretty sure that’s why it’s the best ever.  I’m not sure how old I was when I was allowed to drink tea.  But it was always super milky with a little sugar added {Okay, a lot of sugar if I added it…. }  I know I was quite young.  But, still, to this day, there is nothing better than a cup of tea at the farm.  We like our tea weak.  We joke about just waving the tea bag over the hot water, yep, about that weak.  Nowadays, I just drink my tea black with sugar or honey, not unlike my coffee.

Tea or coffee?

There is something special about sitting down with a friend over a hot cup of tea or coffee.  It’s an invitation to relax, share and connect.  It’s a time to slow down, take a deep breath and let go.  Wrap your hands around that warm mug, look into the eyes of your friend and ask, ‘How are you really doing?’  To me, having coffee or tea with someone is an invitation to a closer connection.  It’s about getting to know someone better.  Think about it, think about the people you invite over for coffee or make plans to get together with….is it just to pass time or to chat and connect?

And coffee at work is a whole other thing.  And I’ve never worked in a huge office building with loads of co-workers so I know nothing of the break room dynamic.  But, my experience is that ‘coffee’ at work can be a few different things.  First, it can be an escape….a chance for a change of scenery or just a chance to let your thoughts wander a little and enjoy a little comfort.  Secondly, it can be a ploy.  You can butter up your co-workers with the offer of a coffee run, it can be a peace offering after a difference of opinions, it can be common ground with someone you have little in common with.

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So, where do I enjoy coffee? I love coffee at home, coffee with Catherine and of course, coffee with Janice.  Kristie’s husband, Ed, makes a mean cuppa, too.  If I’m in the New Glasgow area, coffee needs to come from Cafe Italia or the Coffee Bean, if I remember to have cash on me.  There’s a new coffee shop I want to try, King of Cups, too….I’ve been hearing good things!  In Truro, Aroma Maya, of course, and Noveltea!!  I miss getting downtown and popping in for a cup of something yummy!  On the road, you know you’ve got to hit a Tim Horton’s, and if I’m lucky enough to be in Tatamagouche, I’ll go for a Robin’s or treat from the Tipperary.….especially a butter tart – have you had one yet?!!?!  Best. Ever.   And a road trip to Cape Breton wouldn’t be complete with a stop at Dancing Goat!

Tea or Coffee?

I love drinking whatever hot beverage I’m enjoying out of a handmade pottery mug if I can.  I have quite a few mugs from Sara Bonnyman that I use all the time.  The mug I made at Thrown Together Pottery is also one of my favourites, as imperfect as it is….it is filled with character and good memories.  I’m not a dainty teacup drinker, although I can appreciate the beauty of teacups. But they don’t hold enough for me, too many trips back to the kitchen for a refill for this chick!

So, tell me – who do you enjoy your coffee with or a good cup of tea?  I’d love to hear all about it!

To be continued,

Lori

 

 

 

4 In Blogging/ Life

Warrior – Word of the Year 2017

It’s that time again.  Time to talk about what my Word of the Year is!

Warrior

This year, it is Warrior.  Might seem like a strange word to some, especially if they know how much of a non-fighter I am.  I steer away from confrontation every chance I get. So why would I pick a word like Warrior? Am I suddenly going to start fighting? Am I going to turn into a bully?  Will you see me screaming and yelling, throwing punches, trying to get my way?

No, not at all.  In fact, you may not even notice any difference at all.

Warrior for me this year is going to be about fighting for my family, my marriage, my health, my faith, my friends.  The world throws so much at us and it’s hard to fend off the bad and only allow in the good.  I’m going to prayerfully surround my loved ones.  I will stand tall in my fight, but honestly, it will be on my knees.  I am going to go to the One who will fight with me, who only wants the best for me, my family.  There is so much hurt and so much need in my circle of people that it pains me.  And in so many situations, there is nothing I can do….except pray.  Pray for healing, strength, peace and unity for my people.

Warrior

Now, to some, this might seem like a no-brainer.  But, for me, it was like a lightbulb went off this past year and I look back and see just how neglectful I had been in that area.  Thankfully, I have a friend, my pastor’s wife, who has been very good in supporting this and offering her guidance.  Yes, I’ve prayed for my family, my friends in the past, but not like I’m taking this on now.  I feel the need so strongly to bow before my God and plead with Him, thank Him and honour Him with and for my people.

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Source: Pinterest

As far as my health goes, I know I need to make more time to take care of me.  I need to get out and run, go to the mountain or wake up earlier to have some time to work on me…. I need healthier choices for my family, I need better planned meals.  Nothing concrete, really, just the awareness that something has to give.  I’m not setting myself up for ‘Lose 25 lbs by the end of March’, that doesn’t work for me.  But making healthier choices across the board does.

When I had decided on my word, I messaged Catherine to see if she would do a watercolour for me with my word.  I saw some great ideas on Pinterest, of course.  But then I thought back over my previous ‘words’ and realized part of the process of making a word my own was the creative process of making the visual reminder.  So, I messaged a ‘never mind’ to Catherine and started thinking about what I could make.

Warrior

I used a bunch of things from my stash in the studio, one of the benefits of hoarding craft supplies.  Leather from an old cushion, a stick leftover from a Christmas center piece, chip board letters, grasscloth samples and some bits and bobs from my old scrapbooking stash, rounded out with a bunch of paint that I always have on hand.  I didn’t want it too fluffy or too cute, it may not be quite as hardcore as I wanted but it’ll do as my yearly reminder.  Currently it’s hung in our living room, who knows where it could end up by the end of 2017!

Warrior

Here’s a look back at my words from the past few years:

2016 was ‘Finding Joy’, read it HERE

2015 was ‘Settle’, read it HERE

2014 was ‘Create’, read it HERE

2013 was ‘Love’, read it HERE

I also have a few friends who wrote blog posts about their Word of the Year for 2017.  Christine of Wonkyeye Photography shares her thoughts on Mindfulness HERE and Colleen of Curtains are Open choose Courage which you can read about HERE.

I don’t set resolutions at the dawn of a new year. I pick a word and use it to assess and guide my choices….well, actually, I’m not sure how to even describe it.  The same would go for the selection process, either, I don’t know how to describe the selection, in fact, I would be inclined to say that the word sort of picks me.  So, yeah, I guess this may sound a little wacked….unless you do it, too, then it makes perfect sense!

So, tell me, do you have a Word of the Year for 2017? I’d love to hear all about it!

To be continued,

Lori

In Blogging/ Life

Finding Joy – A Year in Review

As 2016 comes to a close, I like to look back to see how my ‘Word of the Year’ has affected my life and helped my focus throughout the past year.  2016 was the year of ‘Finding Joy’ { You can read the post HERE }.  And when I set out, I had no idea….

Finding Joy 2016

2016 was a year of change and a year of adjusting.  It wasn’t bad, don’t get me wrong, we had lots of laughter, adventures and fun, too. Life is filled with lots of peaks and valleys, isn’t it? I’m glad my focus was joy, though.  In the midst of new routines and different schedules, it’s good to be able to take in the small details that surround you, to embrace them and dwell on those little things.

Of course, when the beginning of a new year rolls around, you have no idea what to expect and what life may throw your way.  And you pick your Word of the Year not knowing what the future holds, so sometimes the curve balls make it interesting.  When I selected ‘Finding Joy’, I didn’t know I would have to dig as deep as I did this past year to find it.  I rolled into 2016 fairly joyful.  But as the year progressed I had to dig deeper for it.  Life weighed me down.  I was busy, tired and stressed.  So, taking time to note the little details around me made my appreciate everything so much more and focus on the positive things.

Finding Joy

I had started the Facebook group, Finding Joy with Farm Fresh, and I am still thankful for that group.  Other people’s joy makes you appreciate your own and makes you aware of making a point to look for your own joy.  I loved seeing what brought joy into other people’s lives and connecting over our shared joy.  And I love that joy doesn’t have to be over big things, it can be small things like the swirl of frost on glass, the simple bloom of Spring, a note left by a loved one.

Sunflower

I think that regardless of what my word for 2017 is, I will still be ‘Finding Joy’ in the coming year.  I feel like it is an underlaying need/calling/purpose in my life right now.  So, I’ll continue the Facebook group, so feel free to join us and you can always use the #findingjoywithfarmfresh hashtag on social media, too.

So, here’s to 2016,  you helped us grow, mature and learn more about ourselves so thank you.  2017, we are ready to meet you head on, ready for whatever you may bring us.

And stay toned for what I’ve selected for 2017!!!

To be continued,

Lori

 

In Life/ Our Family

10 Things I’d be Happy to Find Under the Tree

As a grown-up, sometimes its hard to decide what exactly we want for Christmas.  We live in a world where we pretty much just go out and buy whatever we want.  So, I thought I would compile a list of a few of my favourite things that I would be happy to find under our tree this year.  Men, these might provide you with a few ideas for your wives, too, because…have you even started shopping yet? Yeah, that’s what I thought….

1. An Earl Grey candle from Foxhound Collection – I have one on my counter now, but this scent is being discontinued to make room for some news scents.  So grab it while you can!

Christmas 20162. A Blanket Scarf from Beck & Boosh – these seem to be all the rage and I would love to get my hands on one.

Blanket Scarf3. New Blundstones – I love my red ones but feel like a charcoal pair would compliment my life. And seriously, can you have too many pairs of footwear?

Blundstones4. Pretty much anything from Phillips and Chestnut…paint, salvage, brushes, old wood, hardware, whatever, I’d be happy with it!

Phillips and Chestnut5. Thrummed Mitts from My Home Apparel – these look so toasty and warm for those cold, long drives to work this winter.

My Home Apparel6. Sweatshirt from Fernweh – love this local company and what they stand for.

Fernweh7. A Coupon for supper out at the Appleseed Modern Diner – I have no intention of cooking the entire time I’m off for a bit of a break, so supper out at one of my favourite places would make me happy!

The Appleseed Modern Diner

8. Cineplex Movie passes – we’d like to go watch Sing with the girls so passes would be perfect!

Sing9. Pottery Lessons – last year Michael gave me pottery lessons with Danielle at Thrown Together Pottery in Truro and I can’t even tell you how much I enjoyed it!  I think it was the best gift I ever received!

farm fresh pottery

10. The last thing can’t be wrapped or stuck in a stocking.  The last thing I’d like for Christmas is very cliché but I want Peace on Earth, I want health for my friends and family, I want happiness to fill the heavy hearts.

Christmas 2016

Merry Christmas from our home to yours! May you make wonderful memories, enjoy the company of those you love and find a tiny babe in a manger who is the Great I Am!

To be continued,

Lori

2 In Life

Advent

I think I missed it.  I want a re-do because I wasn’t paying close enough attention.  I was too caught up in my lists, my decorating, my shopping and what I think I should’ve been doing.  And now Christmas is almost here and I don’t feel like I’m ‘ready’.

The shopping might be done, the presents wrapped and tucked under the tree.  I did some baking and shared it.  The house is looking pretty spiffy. { Hoping to show you that soon! } But my heart, it’s not ready to truly celebrate Christmas.

Pastor was speaking about what each week of Advent meant in church this past Sunday and I wanted to stand up and holler, ‘STOP! It can’t be the fourth week of Advent already, I’m not ready!’ But I sat in my pew and silently mourned the loss of yet another Advent too caught up in the prep work for what the world expects from me, not the prep work of what my Lord wants from me.

Pastor spoke of Love.  I haven’t loved enough, or the way my people need to be loved.  I failed in the Love department this advent season.  There were too many words spoke in anger, too much silence, and not enough Love.  I was too focused on deadlines, whether they were real or imagined, to Love my people properly. Pastor spoke about Love not being a feeling but a choice.  We need to choose Love above all else, above ourselves and our needs and wants.

Advent

Pastor spoke of Peace.  Oh, Peace, elusive Peace.  I wish I had more Peace.  There is so much uncertainity and turmoil in this life, in this world.  The small flicker of Peace I have, I will nuture and let that flame grow stronger and brighter in my life.  And I will do my best to share that Peace with those around me.

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Pastor spoke of Hope.  The harsh realities around me make it easy to forget about Hope.  It’s so easy to feel the weight of the world on your shoulders, weighed down by troubles and worries.  But the whole message of Christmas is about Hope.  The prophets spoke about it way back in the Old Testament and they cling to the Hope that their Saviour was coming.  That their way to eternal life would come into this world, years and years after they breathed their last breath.  That is the Hope we need to cling to, too.  That the tiny babe would bring us Hope. Hope for better days, Hope for Peace, Hope for the ability to Love better.

Advent

Pastor spoke about Joy.  This one hit home.  Finding Joy was my Word of the Year for 2016. { You can read aout it HERE } I love Joy.  Joy is fun….right? Do you have Joy? Joy all of the time? Or just during the easy or the fun times? Finding Joy amongst the hard times and the challenges is the true test of Joy.  As I reflected on the past year and my ability to ‘Find Joy’, I think I did okay.  But I’ll save that for another post 😉

advent

Sunday is Christmas.  And after looking at the past few weeks of Advent, I confess that I still don’t feel ready.  But, I do now know how off track I was.  My heart is ready to do some real prep work for this most special of days.  I’m ready to peer into the manger and look at that tiny babe, in whom I put my trust.  He may appear to be a tiny babe, but we know how the story goes, we know who He truly is.  I will come to that manger, probably with tears in my eyes, like I have as I write this, but I’m coming with a heart ready for Him.

Are you really ready and I’m not talking trees, treats and gifts. Is your heart ready?

To be continued,

Lori